Sabbath

It is the seventh day or a day of rest or Saturday for the Jewish people. It is a day to refrain from work. Most Christians consider Sunday Sabbath for similar reasons. It is a tradition, I am afraid gone from our society as many people are working through days of rest. I wish we could get back to those days but unfortunately Saturday or Sunday are days many of us go shopping for groceries. Someone has to serve us at the check out lines. They have no time to rest. When we get home, we settle down to watch others work at baseball, football, golf, news, etc. My point here is that we have lost the purpose of a Sabbath. O yeah, some of us go to church but are anxious to leave after service to make use of our limited time with families. Perhaps, it is a product of so-called progress. We always have Holy Week to remind us of the important days of the week. Yeah right!

Holy Saturday is the day when all of us rested while Jesus laid in the tomb or did he? Perhaps, this Saturday was the busiest time for Jesus. While we rested, perhaps Jesus was dealing with our sins in the very depths of hell telling Satin our sins are paid in full. After his busy day paying for our sins, perhaps he met with our heavenly father to lay out plans for missions to be performed by believers in the mystery of faith. I am not reading from scripture but imaging the busy Saturday for Jesus.

Have you ever wandered why Good Friday is called good? How about Maundy Thursday? What about Saturday during Holy Week? Maundy means commandment which was given to us during the Last Supper to love each other just as he loved us. Though we may think Holy Friday was terrible, it is called “Good” because it led to the second step in the mystery of faith. First Christ died, second he was resurrected defeating death and sin. Maybe we should consider Holy Saturday good as well. In fact every day after Saturday should be consider Easter celebrating his resurrection. O yeah, do not forget the third step in the mystery that will occur someday when he returns. What day will that be? A glorious Sabbath for sure!

Happy Easter!

T

Press

Exertion of enough physical force to change something’s shape. A device for applying pressure can be called a press. In ancient times there were press gangs who forced people into service. Don’t drink from a mug of beer unless you can see the bottom. Otherwise, you may be pressed into the military for accepting a coin dropped in your drink. I do not believe that tradition to press you into service is still practiced but who knows? Maybe, we should all take precautions. Press is also a whole industry of people who work for the media like news reporters. A press release was issued for my new book “Sticks and Stones” which you can find by a few key strokes on Google. The word press has many meanings as you can see but have you ever considered being pressed toward a higher prize?

Paul considered all his attributes in his past a failure, loss or sewer trash compared to his discovery of his higher calling. He discovered righteousness not by his own but by forces that were applied to him that changed his shape. He was pressed into a new shape or creation. The transformative powers that changed him into a new creation can also change us. We never really reach our full potential, but we can stretch to reach new goals, with this power. Some may believe pressure to be shaped into something new is stressful. I believe it is only stressful, if we fail to let go of the things we see with our own eyes. It becomes a relief if we look to the unseen. That is faith! Norman Vincent Peale said in his booklet called “Thought Conditioners”, “Every person, if he is to have mental health and live successfully, must move away from past failures and mistakes and go forward without letting them be a weight upon him.” I say that even past successes can hold us back from future accomplishments in life. We should never give up on the goal which is the prize of God’s upward call in Christ Jesus. One bible version reads, “The one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth into those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians3:13,14) Please read more to see how success according to the world, may prevent us from greater success according to the world to come.

T

Reconciled

Past tense of reconcile. It is to restore missed opportunities between friends and relations. I believe we all need to coexist as much as possible in harmony with one another and to try to get along. What can’t we? “Why can’t we be friends” is a song by War. It is a catchy tune and makes a lot of sense. Here’s a few sentences in the lyrics. “The color of your skin don’t matter to me as long as we can live in harmony. Why can’t we be friends. (repeated three more times) I’d kinda like to be the president so I could show you how your money’s spent. Why can’t we be friends.” In this day of dog eat dog, it seems to me we are determined to avoid reconciliation as much as possible. It is unhealthy to continue to hold grudges and pretend all is okay. Pride gets in the way.

We should not hold people by human standards as we would all fail the test. All of us are weak and subject to actions that we may regret soon after the act. All you have to do is turn on the idiot box called a TV and find an channel that conforms to your opinions. They make it easy to watch and listen according to your perspective on current affairs. It does not matter what the other side is saying because they are wrong, in you not so humble opinion. This non-reconcilable phenomena is a symptom of our illness. What is our illness? Resistance to spiritual guidance at all cost. An alcoholic is only able to recover after acknowledgement of their affliction. An angry human unwilling to be reconciled is like that alcoholic. Until they acknowledge their faults, they will not be able to move forward. Many humans consider it a weakness to submit to spiritual guidance. That is what holds most people back from living a better more peaceful life. We hold ourselves to human standards instead of higher standards. “If anyone is in Christ, that person is part of the new creation…All these new things are from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ who gave us the ministry of reconciliation.” God does not count our sins against us if we become part of the message of reconciliation. (2 Corinthians 5:17-19)

How do we become part of the message? We look beyond ourselves and become a new creation in Christ. I see politicians all of the time standing before an audience apologizing for what they have done in the past. Is the apology a true effort to be reconciled or is it just a ploy to get sympathetic votes? Even worse than an insincere apology, is someone standing in front of an audience trying to justify their selfish actions. I believe in forgiveness, if the person being forgiven has truly repented. A son goes away and ruins his life and his father’s inheritance is spent like water. He realizes he has really messed up his life. Instead of asking for another handout, he humbles himself to admit he is not worthy to be called a son. He returns to his father only to ask for a job. What happens to the son who came truly repenting? The father celebrates the reconciled son as once lost but now found. (Luke 15:11-32)

T

Figs

I love figs. Not too fond for the toxic leaves, but that is another story. I want to focus on the fruit. Unlike many other fruits, like apples, peaches, oranges, etc. the fig is an inverted flower. That means technically it is not a fruit as the flowers do not fall away revealing the tiny fruit. Instead, the flowers bloom inside its encasing and matures into the fruit we love to eat. Some of you may not like figs. There are a lot of health benefits associated with the figs. For example, an ounce of dried figs provides 3 grams of fiber. It may also help lower cholesterol and control blood sugar levels. It is a good source of calcium and helps with osteoporosis. (healthline.com) Maybe, you should try to like them.

Flowers can not become a new creation without assistance from other creatures through the miracle of pollination. This is the transfer of pollen to a flower that allows fertilization. As Spring approaches, it is nice to see flowers on our fruit trees. Those flowers will fall away and will be replaced with a maturing fruit. How did that happen? Mother nature has a way of connecting insect to plant to ensure both species survive. The insect ensures ferritization of the plant where the plant provides some insects with a continued life cycle. If the insect became extinct, the plant it pollinates would cease to exist. It is easy for us to see the pollination process with typical flowers. What about the figs? What if we cut down the fig tree? Would that impact the ecosystem? Most likely it would if mass extermination of the fig tree happened. We are tempted to act too quick when we are not conditioned to consider the outcome of our actions. The Creator is faithful and will not allow us to be tempted beyond our abilities. If we can endure for a little while, we will be provided a way out of our predicament. (1 Corinthians 10:13)

The fig tree needs the insect to produces figs. Did you know when you eat a fig, you are most likely eating one or more dead wasps? Don’t worry the wasp is now part of the awesome nutrients found in figs. A female wasps pollinates the inverted flower of a fig and dies. If the fig is male, the wasps has found a home to lay her eggs as well as pollinating the male fig pod. If the pod is female, the wasp dies, not in vain, as it still pollinates the fig. Male wasps are born first and born blind. They mate with the female wasps born then they sacrifice their bodies trying to bore out of the pod. Their sacrifice allows the fertilized female to escape so she can continue the wasp life cycle. A man owned a fig tree that did not produce figs. He was tempted to cut it down but the gardener asked for another year to fertilize the tree in the hopes that figs would indeed be produced. This story found in Luke 13:1-9 is an example of our temptation to act too soon. Unless we change our hearts and lives, we are at risk of dying in vain. The fig lives because at least one wasp died. We live because He died. May His sacrifice not be in vain.

T

Fonder

The word fond, fonder and fondness have the same meaning which is to have an affection or liking for someone or something. I think being fond of a person is a prerequisite to being in love. We can be fond of someone without falling in love. We can have an affection for a pet or a relative or an event like baseball, but that does not mean love. I believe the two words compliment each other. Why? Because, how can we fall in love with someone until we are fond of them? I believe that being in love with a person means that our individual life journey merges into one. Does that mean we are always together or can our journey take separate paths when necessary and merge again later? I think of all the military spouses who merge and divide often for service to their country. Fondness towards one another can be strengthened by planned separations.

In 1977 when I graduated with my Mechanical Engineering degree, I was ready to see the world. I did not seriously consider any domestic job offers because I had a fondness for travel. The career I chose did indeed allow me the opportunity to travel all over the world. When I first started my career, love was furthest from my mind. It was all about learning my chosen profession. My focus was on my career and that was that. I did have a fondness for the party scene, but love, no way!  I found an old letter I wrote to my parents 42 years ago explaining to them that I had found a very special person. At the time, I did not understand the concept of love or even having a fondness for someone. I am amazed at how much in love I still am for that special person. We met in 1977 in Scotland and was married on March 17th, 1979. Yes, it was St. Patrick’s Day. No, we did not even consider the significance of that date. It was a date we had scheduled randomly not aware that each year we now ask why that date? Perhaps, the British can appreciate the irony. Nevertheless, 40 years ago, I said yes and she said yes and from that point on we have lived together, raised children together and planned times of separation together. I promised her 40 years ago that we would always have the resources for her to travel back home to visit with her parents, other relatives and friends. It was not easy to find the resources over the years, but I am blessed that this was a promise kept. As I write this note, we are on one of those planned separations. Yes, even on our 40th!

During each of the 40 years, we have been separated for at least 3 weeks or longer. In the Middle East, we planned our absence from one another during the hottest time of the year. Sometimes it was necessary for work or illness but all times it has been a moment to reflect on the blessings we have been given. I dislike the separation, but during those times, like how we are strengthened as a couple when back together? The phrase “absence makes the heart grow fonder” is so true. It is like fasting! When we fast, we appreciate what we are fasting from much better. It can be healthy for us to fast if we do not abuse our bodies by depriving ourselves of important nutrients and fluids. Likewise, I believe it can be a healthy relationship if there are planned separations. We did not consider the health aspect of separations throughout the years, but believe that absence really does make the heart grow fonder. I love my wife just as much now than when we proclaimed our vows on March 17th, 1979. I wander sometimes what would our relationship be like without the times absent from one another. God has blessed us greatly so why wander? Happy anniversary love of my life.

T

Footnote: Who was the author of the phrase “absence makes the heart grow fonder”? Some credit the polyglot Anlgo-Welsh writer James Howell in 1650, observed that “Distance sometimes endears friendship, and absence sweeteneth it.” Others credit Shakespeare’s Merchant of Venice 1596-1598 yet others say was an anonymous poem published by Francis Davison’s Poetical Rhapsody in 1602 as the origin of this proverb. (english.stackexchange.com)